Monday, April 1, 2013

The Power of the Tongue 


There certain times when people are going through major changes in their lives that words are sometimes too much.   I will use my daughter today because this is very relevant. 

My grand baby has failed her hearing test since birth.   That is something we have been dealing, praying and just digesting since the first failed test.  It is interesting to me how some people will say things like "Well at least she has five fingers and toes!"  " Well she is still beautiful"  People please none of this helps the parents or  any part of the family to make it alright.  This is a time when just being there and offering support if you don't know what to say.  

Please don't be sorry because God truly has a plan for our Ellie.  We are not sure what it is but we are standing in His name for guidance and the next steps this season.   I just ask that you pray for whatever God has for her and make it Big!  As you are doing that learn to sign.  If not for Ellie for someone you never thought you would communicate with.  

As for Erica and Andrew give them a break.  The can only repeat so many times what the doctor said. Please allow them to process their next steps and have a little time for adjustment.  If you have a need to know ask me.  Right now they need a rest  This is all new for all of us   .  I truly hope you understand. 

Blessings to you. 

Andrea Tarpley 

1 comment:

  1. Very kind, thoughtful words that twist my heart. My sister is speaking and hearing impaired--has been all her life. She has always been treated differently, even by us, her siblings. Deaf PEOPLE (not mutes) are all around us, they are just silent. And many people treat them as if they don't exist.

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